Dear Lady At the Coffee Shop…

I couldn’t help but overhear your conversation about the guy who you like..who you think likes you although he has never said it but you are pretty sure exchanging daily emails proves it although he has never asked you out via email, text, smoke signal or more importantly, phone.

I get that when you send him an email, and he responds several days later at 7:20AM or even the next morning at 7:55AM that you get a thrill hearing from the object of your affection. However, what I don’t get is the agony that I hear in your voice when you talk about him. Seriously? Who wants to hang with someone that makes them stressed and on the other hand, who wants to hang with Debbie Downer?

I have to respectfully disagree with your decision to stop focusing your current therapy (I would agree to you lowering your voice) on YOU and start focusing it on figuring out how to further the relationship with Mr. Email. I think the fact that you consider emailing/texting a relationship makes it clear that you are way to fixated on one man. Not good. NEVER good. Don’t do it.

Furthermore, I get that you feel that he doesn’t ask you out because you spend a lot of time together at work during the days. Um, that is not spending time together, that is going to his place of employment. Also, now he has changed jobs, but he still doesn’t ask you out?

Are you sure that you aren’t stalking him? Hell, if you are, you might actually be fun to hang out with. I have eye black and camo..LET’S ROLL!

In the meantime, I want to refer you to this post, and I urge you to apply it to your life.

And please for the love of God understand, unless he is spending time with you, he isn’t interested in you so why are you interested in him?

About Jen Cross

Born and raised in Dallas, TX, I enjoy writing books about life in Dallas and relationships and their many ups and downs.
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